Dear Sisters in Christ, It was June 26, 2005.  On that day my husband was ordained and installed as a pastor in the Lord’s Church.  I remember it well.  There was an illicit buzz in the heavy, hot air that filled the sanctuary.  My stomach had been doing regular somersaults since the Call Service a few months prior; it was now out of control.  It was real!  It was happening!  The organ was resounding! The kids and I were all dressed up and ready to go. But…was I ready to go?  Was I ready to be THE “pastor’s wife?” I certainly had been doing some research.  The previous four years I…