By Elisabeth Urtel   The unsolicited question to college graduates, to which there is no single correct response: “What do you see yourself doing in the future?  Where do you plan on going with that?” On frequent occasions – encounters with old friends, family reunions, meeting new members at church – I find myself struggling to answer that question gracefully, and with Christian love.   I hold a B.A. in music and am working toward receiving a master’s degree in church music plus a master’s in theology – at the same time.  Growing up in some unconventional church situations, including my family worshipping in our living room with cassette tapes, I…