By Katie Fischer We live in confused times.  Not only is the secular culture in which we live confused about what marriage is and when life begins but it also is confused on what it means to be male and female. The fact is that our culture is secular.  While we may be frustrated or beaten down by its narrative we must stand for what we believe, what our words mean, regardless of what others say.  Our words are of the Church and of the Bible, and we must speak in ways that guard against the words and meanings of the world. This is why we need to hold fast…